Ethical question # 8: building community

DSCN2595‘If you could choose one thing to make this community better what would it be?’

BEECHWORTH Community Support co-ordinator and Beechworth Neighbourhood Centre kitchen co-ordinator Trish Mom (pictured) has answered the eighth – and final – Kerferd Oration lead-in question before Sunday’s 2015 presentation in Beechworth.

‘If you could choose one thing to make this community better what would it be? – that’s the challenge.

“I think I would choose encouraging the community as a whole to care more and to care about our community,” Ms Mom said.

“By that I mean caring for and supporting our local businesses and ensuring their success, and caring for local services – schools, post office, doctor, the health service and banks – because without those things small communities die.

“I also include BNC in that, and caring for our neighbours and keeping an eye on them in our town and in the street.

“Perhaps it’s going next door and borrowing something; it’s considered old school but it’s a great way to keep in touch.”

Ms Mom said that contemporary communications technology – while a “tool for living” – had a flip side. It could lead to disconnection.

“All of this technology – we’re communicating with people across the world but we’re not talking with our neighbour and asking how their day was, just caring about that person,” she said.

“Caring for community members in times of need, when they need that help, is also vitally important, and I guess we do a lot of that at BNC with the community food program, so people can access a meal for whatever reason.

“We also care through the ‘community sharing feast’ that we have once a month (at BNC), when we encourage people to come along and meet new people – it’s just about sharing.”

Ms Mom said caring about newcomers would also build a better community.

“We can make sure they’re welcomed and that their transition into our community is a positive one, wherever they’re from,” she said.

“Whether refugees, or tree changers, (when we welcome) that’s the word that gets out there – that ours is a good place to move to and we have a really good sense of community and we engage and connect with people who come here.

“Caring about the community in times of crises – in bushfires and other emergencies – that’s also important.

“Probably my key one is caring about how our kids learn to become good community members.

“If we don’t teach our kids how to become active in our community and engage, we’re just going to grow generations of people who sit at home and use electronic devices and become a ‘community of individuals’.

“I think it’s important that we make sure that they’re engaged in sporting groups, in clubs, school events.

“That for me is really important.”

Ms Mom said that – in the wake of the earlier oration lead-in questions – giving people a ‘fair go’ and caring about where your food comes from were significant hallmarks of community.

“The great turn out at the (Beechworth Urban Landcare) fair food forum (last week) means that people do really care about what’s happening in that field,” she said.

“Caring about the environment as well is important – maintaining such a special place that we have here.

“A lot of people in the past have worked really hard to maintain the integrity of Beechworth and its historical content and have ensured that what we have is around for a long time.”

The oration will be delivered at 11am at George Kerferd Hotel at Mayday Hills in Beechworth.

This post was reprinted from the ‘Ovens & Murray Advertiser’, which is supporting the oration.

Ethical question # 3: knowing your neighbours

DSCN2158‘How do you get to know your neighbours near and far?’

THE Kerferd Oration committee has released the third of eight questions being asked of Indigo citizens and communities to stimulate thinking about ethics in the lead-up to this year’s oration by ethicist Simon Longstaff in Beechworth on July 19.

Beechworth Neighbourhood Centre manager Jude Doughty had thought deeply about her answer when the Ovens & Murray Advertiser met with her over the oration’s sandwich board outside Beechworth Post Office on Monday.

“How do you get to know your neighbours near and far?” – that’s the question.

“I’ve been thinking a lot about this,” Ms Doughty said.

“It’s raised a lot of questions for me because I thought: ‘Now, what is a neighbour?’ – and that prompted me to go and have a look at the definitions. There were three.

“There was one around the people who live next door to you, there was a more universal one about being kindly and helpful to your neighbours and then there was one in the Biblical sense of ‘Love thy neighbour’ – which is probably the ‘far’.

“I was thinking about my own experience of neighbours and we have very different relationships with neighbours.

“There’s the ‘neighbour from hell’, and then there are those that you keep a bit of an eye out for but don’t really know them.

“Then there are the neighbours for whom you collect the mail or feed the cat or put out the rubbish, and then there are some neighbours that you become really good friends with, and I think that depends on the stage of life.

“If you were in a street with a whole lot of young children the families all get together for barbecues and the kids playing.

“I live next door to some older people (in Beechworth). So that was the other thing that I thought about because I also lived in a high rise apartment in the heart of Melbourne for many years.

“The idea of ‘neighbour’ in that environment is different to here.

“The value of knowing your neighbours does ensure safety and comfort – if something goes wrong you’ll look out, and having a string sense of neighbourliness does result in a more cohesive community, a more respectful community.

“(Social commentator and author) Hugh McKay says a good life is not where you live but how you live. He talks about the need to engage, volunteer, and he talks about ‘joining in and joining up’, which, as manager of the BNC, has prompted me really to think about the role of a neighbourhood centre in a changing world and changing community.

“We can’t keep doing the same things.

“But it is about being connected to community and making sure that if something does go wrong that we are there, that we are able to make our contribution as the BNC, bringing people together with a shared and common interest.

“Neighbours sit somewhere between family and close friends and social media, but neighbours are real.”

Ms Doughty said the Kerferd question had prompted her to plan for a Beechworth ‘Neighbours’ Day’ – an event to which people across the community bring their neighbours.

The oration is named in recognition of the community service of George Kerferd, a nineteenth century Beechworth municipal chairman and later a solicitor and colonial government minister who became Victorian premier.

The oration – now in its 13th year – is a free community event and will be held at George Kerferd Hotel from 10.15am.

This post is reprinted from the ‘Ovens and Murray Advertiser’, which is supporting the oration by publishing each question of the week.